Self description A London resident for 30+ years,Xianggang ren,a gentleman, scholar & intellect, rather plain looking and in addition, bespectcled,optimistic,witty & humorous,fluent in written Han,Yue and Ying Yu,excellent spoken English. Putonghua conversation satisfactory,university educated. Frank, honest,sincere,sentimental,pragmatic,rational, balance-minded and very analytical (but becoming blind when in love), hate being decieved, but have been decieved OUT OF PROPORTION RECENTLY from the cancellation of a marriage registration BY MY FIANCEE ONLY 5 DAYS BEFORE IT WAS DUE, a courtship of about 8 months, as she realized that my good character does not necessarily mean I am SIMPLE MINDED, AND SENSED that I began to suspect her abuse of my trust on her. Afterwards, according to WELL PLANNED MANIPULATION, unbelievably she just vanished onto SOME OTHER PART OF THE GLOBE WITHOUT A TRACE, dramatic like that in a movie. I felt as if my heart had been GOUGED OUT ALIVE, as I treasure sentiment above all other matters. In my definition, cheating (trust abuse) is the worst in a person's character, ESPECIALLY IN A LOVE RELATION. My fiancee came from Huhehaote,Nei Menggu,a rather famous female singer there in the late 1980's and early 90's, following the style of a Taiwanese female singer? Teng Li Zhun (Chun,Qun? excuse my crappy pinyin), who was on a language visa staying in London. I am a devoted atheist, but a humantarian instead (was brain-washed into Catholicism from a young age attending a Roman Catholic primary school in Macao/Aomen,like a sheet of white paper easily stained, but I praise Christianity as the best in the world as I am concerned. Jesus Christ is at least a humanitarian; apart from other roles believed by others that he plays.) However,I ACCEPT AND RESPECT others' religions,because people all have different thoughts and belief. On your becoming my life long partner,needless to emphasize,I shall always honour,respect and cherish you & other matter related to you,DUE TO THE SPECIAL RELATION, Aged 50+,neither a habitual smoker nor a drinker,meaning alcohol,healthy and agile,due to regular swimming and exercise,still ride a POWERFUL MOTORCYCLE, and drive a fast car and carry out most of the maintenance & services myself due to an analytical mind, NOT MUCH DOMESTICATED,as being a WANG LAO WU. Divorced at 31,but have not remarried since. Popular at any social functions but always return home without a partner,THUS SEEKING HELP FROM THE INTERNET. Music is a must in my life. Prefer classical music, Chopin is my favorite composer,so sentimental,then Mozart and Rossini,also modern rock and folk songs. I particular have a soft spot on songs by female singers,ESPECIALLY IN MANDARIN,hence the experience from the female Mongolian singer. Other interests: classical Chinese literature, nature & countryside, science & documentary, well travelled over many parts of the world. WANTED PREFERABLY a lady of Chinese ethnic,but not a CONDITION, it is the INNER TRADITIONAL CHINESE MENTALITY AND VALUE I SEEK. Numerous Chinese ON FOUR CORNERS OF THE WORLD, of course,have the Chinese appearance,which do not necessarily say they all have TRADITIONAL CHINESE VALUE. A lady,whom I can love,thus gives me INSPIRATION & MOTIVATION to complete my life cycle. Non-smoker,homely,AGED 36+ TO EARLY 50'S, devoted in ONE MAN TO ONE WOMAN RELATIONSHIP that is based on LOVE & SENTIMENT with a PROJECTION NOT TO CHANGE PARTNER FOR ANOTHER 50 YEARS,if longevity permits. If loyalty is a strong word then AT LEAST NON-BETRAYAL,optimistic & cheerful, a believer in HAPPINESS CANNOT NOT ALWAYS BE BOUGHT WITH CASH. I am prepared to accept YOUR SUPERIOR COMPLEX IF YOU ARE MORE INTELLGIENT THAN ME. Educated to proper senior high school,minimum,not necessarily an introvert but AT LEAST NOT A RADICAL EXTROVERT. YOUR ATTRACTIVENESS IS AN ADDED BONUS,a soft spot that blinds me, as I am rather plain to realize these women are difficult to please,ALAS,TOO MUCH COMPETITION. However, should that come to my possession,I shall always treasure it as A MING VASE OR MONA LISA BY PICCASO,kind of compensational psychology. The order of your specification requirements have been written as they appearand in a witting way, just to show my HUMOROUS CHARACTER,but I have taken the whole matter DAMN SERIOUS. Please do not treat my intention LIGHT-HEARTEDLY. A love relationship remains fruitless if based on YOU YUAN WU FEN. It is the FEN that man and woman must CULTIVATE.
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