Hi, I am qualified teacher with serious intentions of writing books on philosophy (does kongzi ring a bell, taoism, etc)-- this I suppose makes me a quite interesting person-- apart from that I am a socialable firendily, warm-hearted, attractive person. I have a strong interest in chinese cultural and intend to live there oneday, if I can find something useful to do that will content and satisfy me...ofcourse this means a good, caring and thoughtful woman, some one with a big heart, who possesses a passionate desire to live life to the fullest, is creative, not overly materialistic, even spiritual...but on the other hand, perhaps not, for opposites are said to attract...I have found that to be true... I am aware that many of the woman here are seeking a husband and probably a better life for themselves, residence abroad etc...if that is the only reason for your interest in loving a western guy it would be useless to contact me-- I want a intelligent and beautiful woman, who really wants to flourish in life, but is not too complicated, if you know what I mean...some one who is simple and loving in other words... furthermore, a woman who understands the western mentality enough so that differences of culture do not make a relationship impossible...what I would like to add is that I DO understand the chinese mentailty, the importance of family, dutifullness to the parents, from the prospertive husband, spouse, boyfriend, generosity with no springs attached, willingness to help out if he is able both financially and every other way one might imagine, the importance of goodness and being swayed by feelings of heart, etc; I understand all that perfectly well...I am eager to be part of that way of thinking, attitude to life, etc...However the woman should be independent and not require in everything she does her husband to be by her side, not too 'needy' in other words...westerners believe 'independence' is a virtue!...I beleive if a chinese girl can be both independent and what she naturally is which is loyal, she can be a most wonderful person to share a life with...if you think you are that or can be that then we may begin a correspondance....write to me in other words!
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